Saturday, March 31, 2012

Strangers, again.


Relationships. They're never easy to handle right? Quarrels, disagreements & conflicts, etc. There are stages in every relationship. There are good endings & bad endings in every episode. 


Stage 1: Complete Strangers. Meeting each other.
Stage 2: The chase. Some says it's the best part. All you wanted, was to know more about the other party. All you wanna do is to hang out with the other party. The only person you wanna talk to was her/him. He/She was the number one priority. Everytime you see the other party, you'll get butterflies in your stomach. 
Stage 3: The honeymoon. It's the time where you can fully express your affection towards each other, & do all the things you wanna do as a couple. It's like a dream come true. The girl/guy you wanna be with so bad, is finally yours. 
Stage 4: Comfortable. Where you can truly be yourself. Taking each other for granted. 
Stage 5: Tolerance. Feeling dissatisfied with the relationship. 
Stage 6: Downhill. Arguments don't get solved. Problems continued. Nearing the stage of breaking up.
Stage 7: Breaking-up. Both starting a new path. Leaving each other.
Stage 8: Strangers again. The change would be drastic. Finding someone new eventually. All would be left are memories.




But not all relationships, end with a break up, some manages their relationship well & get married in the end ! HAHA. 

Sunday, March 4, 2012

Set me free ♥





Break ups , they're never easy right? HAHA, don't cry about it. A break up is like a broken mirror. It is better to leave it broken than hurt yourself to fix it. Why bother getting back that someone when he/she isn't worth your love anymore? Why sacrifice so much when that person you love wholeheartedly don't even bother? Life is full of surprises, you'll never know what's gonna happen in the next moment of our story. We must fully forget about the past, in order to fully appreciate the new beginning. Starting over can be hard, but changes in life is only possible, when we no longer stand still. Change is sweet & can inspire us to learn new things. Everything happens for a reason, good & bad. Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened. Holding on to your regrets can prevent you from living life to the fullest, & if you allow it to happen, you'll never know what you're missing. If destiny is calling out your name, answer it, & you might be in for a new adventure.  Never be sad for what is over, just be glad that it was once yours. If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it. Someday, you'll find someone who truly appreciates you & who'll truly stand by you. Don't give up the entire forest just because of a blade of grass.

Smile & live life to the fullest